I don’t do perfection. To be honest I don’t think we can. I mean we can write a wonderful
piece and think it’s wonderful yet rereading it again a day later or even ten years later we will see ways we could have changed it. Improved on it, maybe it’s just our knowledge that has grown the reality is you cannot change perfection and in all areas of my life I need change at some level.


A man who dedicates his life to reading God’s word may need change in other areas of life.

The world’s fastest runner may be the world’s worse friend

The kindest mother may be the cruellest wife.

As humans we are multi faceted we have some many different layers. So many changes needed so many places in which we need to grow.

It’s exciting really; perfection leaves no room to grow. Imagine being thirty years old and being perfect in everything would you want to stop there or would you want to grow maybe add a new role to the many you play. Become a wife a mother.

Life is for growing for changing and to be perfectly honest that’s why I love it so. I hate failure but I do accept that I learn from making mistakes, sometimes they are harsh but again that’s how life is. Each day is a chance to learn, grow, and change.

I use to crave perfection but from my point of view reality is the more perfect you attain to be the less of a person you become. How many experts in their field have found themselves losing out in other areas?

This doesn’t mean I don’t try, far from it. I try in everything I do from writing this blog post to doing the laundry. They are all needed and equally as important in the grand scheme of things. I strive to achieve the best in all parts of my life to play my life roles to the fullest of my capacity. To give all that I can and to love with all my heart!

Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing. ~Harriet

Certain flaws are necessary for the whole. It would seem strange if old friends lacked
certain quirks. ~Goethe

No one is perfect… that’s why pencils have erasers. ~Author Unknown

Nothing that is complete breathes. ~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from
Spanish by W.S. Merwin

The most difficult part of attaining perfection is finding something to do for an
encore. ~Author Unknown

When you aim for perfection, you discover it’s a moving target. ~George Fisher






We cannot allow this to happen!

There are not many things in this world that get me really  upset and embarrassed with our government but this is one of them. It has broken my heart that so called pencil pushers are putting a young child’s life at risk.

Let me explain.

This is Rania

She is a beautiful five-year old girl who is severely disabled due to quadriplegic cerebral palsy with complications including epilepsy and if fighting a life threatening condition isn’t enough Rania also now faces deportation to Algeria, a country in which still views epilepsy as possession.

Rania came to the UK in 2008 on a six month visa, to live with her aunt and uncle to help give her mother a break and to help her condition. As it emerged just how ill she was her stay got extended. She has made huge improvement and is now even a pupil at a mainstream school.

Her aunt and uncle wish to adopt her and raise her. Her aunt states, “I have breathed life into her and resuscitated her when she collapsed in the living room”. “She is part of the family .”

Her family doctor Robert Walker said “The improvements she has made here have been remarkable and it would be detrimental to send her back”.

Yet despite all this amazing improvements the Home Office are saying she must return home after an application for her to remain in this country was turned down.

The Human Rights act states

Protection of Foreign

A foreign national cannot be deported if they are liable to face death or torture in their home country (or whichever country it is proposed they should be deported to). This rule is absolute*2 and may even be invoked if the health care in the relevant country
is deemed to be inadequate, or if there is no direct threat but the country is

This rule is used often with prisoner extending their stays, yet here we have an innocent child being sentenced to death as there is no way she will receive the treatment in Algeria that she needs to save her life.

Rania’s family have started a campaign to appeal the Home Office decision and raise awareness of Rania’s plight.

Please join me in helping them:-

They have a Facebook group, which gives you updates and ways
to support Rania’s family.

Please sign and share this petition

Please tweet the petition and information including the
hashtag #RaniaMustStay

Please so many times we read of the power of the people, the right to have our voices heard. Please join us as we get Rania heard.

For more information please read

Or watch Granada news reports

*Please note all views on this blog are my own and not the views of the family.

I Confess

I have a confession to make. I’m an impatient person. It is so bad at times I actually drive myself mad.

If people say five minutes at 5.01, I’m frustrated.

If someone says I’ll get right on it. I’m expecting them to mean now.

As a mother I drive my kids mad. I shout upstairs “come down here” 10 seconds after I’m shouting again “where are you”. I’m ashamed to say I actually even get annoyed when they are on the loo. I mean how long does it take to pee?

I scream at the computer for loading the page to slow.

Record all programmes as adverts drive me mad.

Slow drivers are the bane of my life.

I don’t like being this way. I have this illusion of being a free-spirited woman with no concept of time. Just going with the flow but I fail terribly.

I am a lot better than I used to be. When I first had my children they never had to do anything. Not because I spoiled them, no I was just too impatient to wait for them.

Having Livvy changed me a lot, nothing I did would hurry her up. Seizures would happen just as we were about to leave. Plans would have to be changed. I did learn how to just take one day at a time.

Why am I telling you all this. Well simply I find myself going back to the old ways. The impatient, frustrated woman is taking over and I seriously like don’t like it.

Summer is around the corner and I want to relax and enjoy the warm days. So here on my blog I am making myself accountable. The next time I get frustrated or impatient I will remind myself of the person I want to be.

Do you have to hold yourself accountable for any reason?
Share with me in the comments and we can work on it together.

Never Give Up

Yesterday I updated my Facebook status with the words ‘I give up’ and at the point when I wrote those words that’s exactly how I felt. A dear friend feared for her daughter. Dr’s weren’t being supportive and I was simply frustrated with life.

Roll forward a few hours and I was just walking into alpha when a wise man told me simply he didn’t like my status “you can never give up”.

What truth was in those words? Even in the darkest moments we know we have to carry on. We couldn’t just sit still and say enough is enough. Our bodies would go into self-preservation mode and we would become hungry, thirsty, have to use the bathroom.

Think back to the times when you were ready to give up, what happened? A kind word from a friend, a cuddle from a child, a phone call from your spouse.

Something that reminded you of the light in the midst of darkness!

We never give up!

Somehow, something, someone gives you strength and hope.

For me my faith ensures that I am never alone. That when I cannot find strength in myself I know I can turn to the Lord and find my strength in him.

But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

Isaiah 40:31, NIV

My hope, my strength can be found in my children’s hugs, my husband’s smile, my friends words.

We can’t give up, life is full of hope.

“And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, who he has given us.”

Romans 5.5,NIV


Book Review – The Shelter of God’s Promises- Sheila Walsh


I have to say I look Book sneeze it lets me read books for
the nothing. Just to give a review of them, well that’s fine by me.

The Shelter of God’s Promises by Sheila Walsh came out to me
a few months ago and to be honest it has taken me a while to read through it.
This is not because it’s boring or dull far from it. The reason is simply that
it has made me think. I have found myself reading the pages over and over again
as it impacts me deeply, Sheila hitting my heart with her words.

Sheila Walsh writes “In these uncertain times, I know 100
percent that I can stake my life on the unshakeable, unchanging promises of God”.

This book is offers Shelia’s heart as she shows us through
scripture and her own story what God has promised us, his unrelenting commitment
towards us.

I have found this book to be powerful in my life, a time
when things are getting me down and I feel myself calling to God, where are

“This is one of the greatest ironies of our faith; at the moment when we
realise we have nothing to give Christ and we fall flat on our faces, we bring
the gift he has been asking for all along.”


We come to God with nothing and he gives us everything.

I think this is a book that I will be turning back to, one
that can fill me with hope, encouragement as it reminds me of God’s love.

I find Sheila Walsh to be an incredible writer a gifted
woman who shares her passion for God in a wonderful way. This book is another part
of her personal testimony.

I would recommend this book easily whenever and whenever, if
you are feeling low, need strength or just want to remind yourself of God’s
eternal love.